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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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13 February 2024, by Billy Boss

Tools to Use to Become Your Best Self with Luke Hawkins

 

Ever felt stuck, blaming others for where you are in life?

Join us in this eye-opening episode, as we unravel the secrets to breaking free and becoming your best self with Luke Hawkins, the CEO of Australia's top coaching school in Neuro Transformation Therapy.

Luke and I share a unique journey – we began as mentor and student, with me being a student in need of more than just business lessons. I stumbled into one of Luke's courses by mistake (I thought it was about sales and marketing), and it turned out to be the best mistake of my life. Eight years later, Luke has trained over 2000 students, generating over 3 million a year. His transformational experiences are legendary, and his students, including myself, have evolved into 6 and 7-figure leaders.

Let's dive into Luke's emotional journey, exploring the principle that defines his education and personal life. Discover the profound questions that can lead you to your desired destination, the significance of fitness in Luke's life, and the driving force behind his incredible humility.

In this episode, Luke shares:

  • 08:30 - Common responses of blaming others for our life situations
  • 11:17 – The foundational principle in Luke's education and personal growth
  • 20:00 – Profound questions to guide you towards your goals
  • 32:46 – Luke's interpretation of Boss Confidence
  • 35:37 – The importance of fitness in Luke's life
  • 39:35 – Luke's biggest drive
  • 41:40 – What keeps Luke grounded and humble
  • 44:10 – Luke's message to those feeling stuck
  • 45:44 – Guidance for those who've achieved success and now feel plateaued
  • 50:35 – Upcoming events in Luke's coaching school – dates and locations
  • 53:39 – Luke's powerful message to all

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