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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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20 February 2024, by Billy Boss

Become Aligned in Order to Move Forward with Emmanuel Anthony

 

Looking to create the lifestyle you love? If so, this is for you!

In today’s episode, we will explore the profound journey of Emmanuel Anthony, a human behavioural specialist, inspirational speaker, researcher, writer, teacher, consultant and content creator. Imagine grappling with the challenges of childhood, unable to speak the language around you. How does one find connection in such adversity? Emmanuel not only faced this struggle but turned it into a powerful catalyst for change.

In this transformative episode, Emmanuel dives deep into the correlation between values and voids in our lives, the power of revisiting and aligning with our values, and the extraordinary lessons found in life's stresses. His message is clear – everything comes down to your values, and he encourages us to check in with them regularly.

Ready to break free from the barriers holding you back? Join us in this enlightening conversation with Emmanuel Anthony, and embark on a journey towards alignment, empowerment, and creating a life you love.

In this episode, Emmanuel shares:

  • 02:57 – Our greatest teachers won’t always come in the form we expect
  • 05:30 – I wanted to eat from the same plate as everyone else – meaning – whatever I taught needed to be authentic
  • 08:28 – Every human being’s set of values is in directly proportional to their voids, the areas of their life they perceive are missing something
  • 14:01 – Shame is…
  • 27:02 – I revisit my values every four weeks – I don’t take guesses about what is most important to me
  • 32:02 – Finding blessings in our stresses
  • 42:43 – You want to evolve, grow and live an amazing and aspiring life, look for love

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