14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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05 March 2024, by Billy Boss

The Emotional Journey of Writing a Book That Cleanses the Soul with Joanna Hunt

 

Ever felt the burning desire to turn your thoughts into a book but found yourself paralyzed by the daunting question, "Where do I even begin?" If you've ever been in that boat, I hear you loud and clear. In today’s episode, we will delve into the gripping challenge of transforming journal notes into a book—a journey that was initially shrouded in fear and self-doubt.

Picture this: the heavy cloud of uncertainty looming overhead, the fear of judgment and emotional pain acting as giant roadblocks in your mind. But what if I told you that pushing through those fears could lead to a transformative and soul-cleansing experience? I did just that, and the profound healing and reinvention that followed made every moment worthwhile.

In this episode, I share my personal struggle and triumph, inviting you to embark on a similar transformative journey with the help of the incredible Joanna Hunt. A New York Times bestselling ghostwriter and celebrity book strategist, Joanna is the secret sauce to turning your book dreams into reality in just a few short months, not the years it took me.

In this episode, Joanna shares:

  • The Power of Writing a Book: Impacting Lives and Creating Meaning
  • The Inspiring Stories of Those Who Overcome Adversity | Learn to Love and Respect Others
  • How to Stay Inspired and Write Your Best Work
  • How to Share Your Story and Overcome Trauma: A Therapeutic Writing Guide
  • The Power of Stories: Learning, Growth, and Limitless Potential

Your bestseller dreams might be closer than you think—take the leap with confidence!

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