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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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19 March 2024, by Billy Boss

Letting Go and Finding Happiness: A Powerful Approach to Moving On with Danielle Johnson

 

Struggling to find happiness amidst life's challenges? Unsure of how to break free? Join me for a deeply personal and transformative episode with Danielle Johnson, an Educational Consultant at Wholistic Education, as she shares her inspiring journey of letting go and discovering the secrets to health and happiness for a fulfilling life.

As Danielle opens up about her struggles, she reveals the 4P Framework for Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health that changed her life forever. Through overcoming negative self-talk and embracing safety and positivity, she offers invaluable insights to those seeking inner peace amidst life's challenges.

From a career in education to discovering her true purpose, Danielle's story resonates deeply with anyone who has ever felt lost or unsure of their path. Tune in to learn how letting go can lead to profound growth and ultimate happiness.

In this episode, Danielle shares:

  • Transform Your Life: The 4P Framework for Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health
  • Overcoming Negative Self-Talk: Embracing Safety and Positivity
  • Unlocking Financial Success: Transforming My Belief System for Wealth
  • Overcoming Anxiety: How I Calmed My Swelling Amygdala
  • From Education to Purpose: My Journey of Self-Creation

Don't miss this empowering episode filled with wisdom and practical tools to navigate life's challenges and emerge stronger than ever before.

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