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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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28 November 2023, by Billy Boss

The Winning Formula for Success - What It Really Requires with Melissa Dunbar

 

Feeling a bit lost in your personal and work life, uncertain of where to start or waiting for the perfect moment? Consider this your wake-up call! Melissa, a seasoned navigator through the world of success, understands the challenges and has embraced them like an athlete preparing for a tough race—conquering fears and seizing opportunities.

In this episode, Melissa guides you to unlock hidden strengths and explore endless possibilities within yourself. Embrace change and start afresh; success often comes to those who adapt and view things from new angles. Dive into the athlete mindset, crystal-clear goal setting, daily commitments, and the art of adjusting on the fly. Melissa unveils her strategy for conquering fear and unhooking the trailer of negative stories, propelling you confidently towards your goals.

Ready to take that leap, surpass your limits, and shape the life you truly desire, both personally and professionally? Join us, and let Melissa's insights catalyze your transformative journey into a world of limitless potential.

Noted Timestamps:
 

  • [00:09:14- 00:13:45] Melissa's metamorphosis from being a fashion designer to being the owner and director of Big Fish Events Group.
  • [00:18:36- 00:23:12] Unpacking The Slight Edge (book) philosophy and the power of consistent, small steps.
  • [00:23:35- 00:28:31] The athlete mindset—clear goals, daily commitment, and the importance of adjustment.
  • [00:30:13- 00:33:40] Melissa's simple strategy for conquering fear and unhooking the trailer to the negative stories.
  • [00:39:31 - 00:42:29] Melissa's greatest success is yet to come—building Big Fish and leaving doors open behind her.

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