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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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16 April 2024, by Billy Boss

How Do You Find Self-Worth After Trauma and Abuse with Billy

 

In this special episode of the Boss Confidence Podcast, I'm thrilled to share a transformative interview that Angelica Alen and I recorded weeks ago for her platform. During our conversation, we delved into the profound journey of building unshakable self-confidence and self-worth after enduring years of trauma and abuse.

My story is one of resilience and empowerment. From surviving sexual, emotional, mental, and physical abuse to facing a near-death experience during the war in Bosnia, I've overcome countless challenges on my path to healing. Through it all, I've discovered the power of connecting with my true essence, conquering my fears, and rebuilding my confidence from the ground up.

Although this interview was originally recorded for Angelica's platform, its impact was so profound that we felt compelled to share it with the Boss Confidence Podcast community. In this candid conversation, I share insights, wisdom, and practical tips for anyone seeking to overcome adversity and cultivate a life of confidence and empowerment.

In this episode, I’ll be sharing:

  • How to Begin Healing and Overcome Trauma: A Journey to Self-Discovery
  • Achieving Inner Peace: The Key to True Success
  • Unlocking Success: The Power of Forgiveness and Rewriting Your Story
  • Healing Through Journaling: Unlocking Memories and Embracing Self-Growth
  • The Power of Seeking Support and Overcoming Isolation

Join me as we delve into my remarkable journey and uncover the transformative power of resilience and self-belief. Together, let's inspire each other to rise above our circumstances and embrace our true potential.

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