14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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23 April 2024, by Billy Boss

Dare to Stand Out: A Daring Approach to Holistic Brand with Alexandra Stark

 

Feeling lost in a big crowd of businesses? Ever wondered how to make your brand shine bright? If you've ever found yourself struggling to differentiate your brand and attract your ideal clients, today’s episode is for you.

Join us as we dive into a daring approach to holistic branding with the remarkable Alexandra Stark. As a seasoned coach, speaker, and expert in personal branding, Alexandra is on a mission to empower female business owners like you to step into their power, embrace visibility, and create a brand that speaks directly to their soul clients.

Alexandra shares easy-to-follow tips and tricks to help you break free from the crowd and create a brand that's truly yours. From finding your brand's special vibe to using videos to get noticed, you'll learn simple ways to make your business stand out.

In this episode, Alexandra will share:

  • Dare to Be Different: Embrace Your True Self and Make an Impact
  • The Power of Movement: Empower Yourself
  • Transform Your Morning Routine: Start Your Day with Success and Positivity
  • The Magic of Combining Law of Attraction and Law of Action
  • Be Fearless: Embrace Your Strong Opinions and Stand Out

If you're ready to step up, be bold, and make your mark, this episode is just what you need.

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