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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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06 August 2024, by Billy Boss

Refuel The Unstoppable In You with Tracy Schmitt

 

Ever wonder what truly makes someone unstoppable? In this episode, "Refuel The Unstoppable In You with Tracy Schmitt," Tracy shares her incredible journey that will leave you inspired and ready to tackle any challenge. 

Picture this: Tracy, the first four-way amputee to climb the Himalayas, felt the need to prove herself again years later, despite what others said about age and limitations. Early one morning, with a spark of determination, she set out to conquer the mountains once more. Tracy’s stories are not just about physical feats but about embracing possibilities and shattering excuses. She even innovated her own way to ski by using men's boots backward—an ingenious solution born from sheer willpower. 

Unstoppable Tracy Schmitt has shared the stage with Jane Fonda, Al Pacino, and Mark Wahlberg. She won the 2017 Robert W. Jackson Award and has been featured on CBC, NBC, FOX, and in O, The Oprah Magazine. Tracy, a Quest for the Gold World Cup sailor and paraskiing bronze medalist, is a leader, advocate, athlete, and speaker, delivering the Lim[b]itless Secret in her book, Unstoppable YOU. 

Tune in to hear more about:

  • Embracing possibilities despite uncertainty

  • Innovating solutions to overcome physical limitations

  • Advocating for disability rights and making a global impact 

Join us as Tracy delves into how embracing possibility, regardless of uncertainty, fuels the unstoppable spirit within you. Her tales of courage and ingenuity will encourage you to see beyond your excuses and unlock your full potential. 

Don’t miss this episode—it's a personal journey of resilience and innovation that you won’t forget!

We are limitless đź’›

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