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14 November 2023, by Billy Boss

What Do You Really Mean When You Say, "I AM FINE"

 

Do you know that “I am fine” is the most told lie in the English language? It is usually used when someone is, in fact, not fine but they say “I am fine” because they don’t want to burden others and it’s easier to explain than what’s wrong, would you agree?

F.I.N.E is said to stand for “Feeling Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional”, and can also be “Feeling I’m Nothing to Everyone” or “Feeling Inadequate, Needing Encouragement”. Whatever your definition of FINE may be most of us would just lie and say “I am FINE”, because it’s an easy way out.

Then why do we say “I am fine” when clearly, we’re not:

  • Not sure of what you really feel
  • Pretending to be okay
  • To avoid conflicts
  • Scared to tell what you're really feeling

 

Only those who identify with these feelings can truly understand the agony behind the words “I am fine.”

The next time someone asks how you are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”? What if we stop, take a moment, and answer with true sincerity how I’m doing? Or better yet, tell them how you’re feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down and honestly evaluating how we are doing.

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15 October 2024, by Billy Boss

From 90% Burned to Fully Alive: A Journey of Gratitude and Joy with Michael Gaultois

 

Have you ever wondered how someone could survive the unthinkable and still find joy on the other side?

In this episode, “From 90% Burned to Fully Alive: A Journey of Gratitude and Joy,” we sit down with Michael Gaultois, a man whose story of resilience and transformation will inspire you to see life in a whole new light.

Michael opens up about surviving a catastrophic fire that left him 90% burned, sharing how he found hope and purpose in the midst of unimaginable pain. His journey is one of turning trauma into empowerment—not only for himself but for others going through similar challenges. What struck me most was Michael’s unwavering belief that joy isn’t something you find at the end of the road but in every step of the journey.

Tune in to hear more about: 

  • The emotional challenges burn survivors face and how to overcome them

  • The power of community, support, and purpose in healing

  • How to turn pain into passion and live a life of gratitude and joy 

Through his story, Michael reminds us that while we all face different battles, our ability to thrive comes from embracing the journey and finding strength within. His message of hope and gratitude will leave you feeling empowered to tackle your own challenges, no matter how big they may seem.

Tune in to hear Michael’s incredible story and learn how to find gratitude, even in life’s darkest moments.

 

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